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Helping
with Homework --
by
Lynn Zuk-Lloyd
When I was young,
my mother always made sure my homework was done
properly. She encouraged me to be a good student and took time each evening
to go over spelling words and drill me before tests so I knew the necessary
information to do well on the exams. I wanted to do the same for my
daughter, but didn't have the energy. After caring for her younger brother
and working part-time during the day I was exhausted. It was a struggle just to keep
my eyes open in the evenings and the patience that I wanted to give
her just wasn’t there. I was grouchy and irritable. She deserved
better.
One night she asked
me for help with spelling words. That went OK. Then she asked me to
check over her math homework. That was a struggle, but I forced my
sleepy mind to check every problem and only found a few mistakes.
Then she informed me that she had a social studies test the next day
and wanted me to ask her questions. My thoughts turned to anger
because my body just wanted to go to bed and I was so tired I felt
like I couldn’t function anymore. The most I could do was muster
out a grouchy, “I’ll try.” I asked her a few questions and she
gave wrong answers. I was annoyed and starting to loose my cool
because she didn’t put much time into studying and it would take a
long time going over and over the questions until she got them
right.
“Help me, God,” I
prayed in my thoughts. I asked my daughter another question and she
answered it incorrectly. I felt like I wanted to scream but remained
silent. “Please God," I whispered, " Help me. I’m too tired.
I don’t want to yell at my daughter. Help me to be
patient with her.”
Suddenly a
peacefulness came over me. I could hear myself asking social studies
questions in a calm, loving manner. My eyes looked at the
information and my mouth asked questions with gentleness and
compassion that was far beyond me. Even though it was my voice, I
knew it wasn’t me asking the questions. God had taken over. He
gave my daughter what she needed that evening when I was too
exhausted to function. God answered my prayer.
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